Your complete guide to writing a winning purchase offer and securing your dream home
Last Updated: February 2026
Making an offer on a house is one of the most significant financial decisions you'll ever face. Whether you're a first-time home buyer or a seasoned property investor, understanding how to make an offer on a house can mean the difference between winning your dream home and losing out in a bidding war. This comprehensive guide walks you through every step of the home buying offer process, from determining your offer amount to negotiating with sellers and getting your offer accepted.
The home buying process can feel overwhelming, but with proper preparation and guidance from an experienced real estate agent, you can submit a competitive offer that stands out in any market condition. Let's explore the essential steps to making a successful offer on your next home.
Before you start house hunting or making offers, obtaining mortgage pre-approval is essential. A pre-approval letter from a lender tells sellers you're a serious buyer with the financial backing to complete the purchase.
Demonstrates financial readiness: Sellers are far more likely to accept offers from pre-approved buyers because there's less risk of financing falling through.
Defines your budget: Pre-approval helps you understand how much house you can afford, preventing you from wasting time on properties outside your price range. Your loan officer will review your finances and provide clear guidance.
Speeds up closing: With much of the underwriting already complete, pre-approved buyers can often close faster than those who haven't started the mortgage process.
Strengthens your negotiating position: In competitive markets, pre-approval can be the deciding factor when sellers choose between multiple offers.
Don't confuse pre-approval with pre-qualification. Pre-qualification is a quick estimate based on self-reported financial information. Pre-approval involves a thorough review of your credit, income, assets, and employment history. Sellers know the difference, and most prefer offers backed by true pre-approval.
Get pre-approved with multiple lenders to compare rates, but do so within a 14-45 day window to minimize the impact on your credit score.
Making a competitive offer requires understanding both the local real estate market and the specific property you're interested in. This research helps you determine an appropriate offer price and anticipate potential issues.
Your real estate agent will provide a Comparative Market Analysis (CMA) showing recent sales of similar homes in the area. Look at:
Consider factors that might affect the home's value compared to similar properties:
Is it a buyer's market or seller's market? This significantly impacts your offer strategy:
| Market Type | Characteristics | Offer Strategy |
|---|---|---|
| Seller's Market | Low inventory, high demand, multiple offers common | Offer at or above asking, minimize contingencies, move fast |
| Buyer's Market | High inventory, homes sit longer, sellers more flexible | Offer below asking, include contingencies, negotiate concessions |
| Balanced Market | Inventory and demand roughly equal | Offer close to fair market value with standard contingencies |
Setting the right offer price is both an art and a science. Too low, and you'll insult the seller or lose to a competing offer. Too high, and you overpay or face appraisal issues later.
Comparable sales data: What have similar homes actually sold for? This is your baseline.
List price accuracy: Is the home priced appropriately based on comps, or is it overpriced or underpriced?
Time on market: Homes that have been listed for weeks may have more negotiating room than fresh listings.
Competition for the home: Are there other interested buyers? Multiple offer situations require more aggressive pricing. When there's heavy competition, you may need to decide how much to offer above asking price.
Seller motivation: Why is the seller moving? Motivated sellers (relocation, divorce, estate sales) may accept lower offers.
Your agent can help you choose the right approach based on your situation:
Contingencies are conditions that must be met for the sale to proceed. They protect your earnest money deposit by giving you legal ways to exit the contract if problems arise.
Inspection contingency: Allows you to have the home inspected and renegotiate or walk away if significant issues are found. This is one of the most important protections for buyers. Learn more about home inspections and why they matter.
Financing contingency: Protects you if your mortgage is denied. Without this, you could lose your earnest money if financing falls through.
Appraisal contingency: Ensures the home appraises at or above the purchase price. If it appraises low, you can renegotiate or exit.
Home sale contingency: Allows you to back out if you can't sell your current home. This weakens offers significantly in competitive markets.
In highly competitive markets, some buyers waive contingencies to strengthen their offers. This is risky and should only be considered if:
Never waive your inspection contingency without a pre-inspection or expert advice. Undiscovered issues could cost you tens of thousands of dollars.
The earnest money deposit shows the seller you're serious about buying. The amount can influence how attractive your offer appears.
For a $400,000 home, earnest money typically ranges from $4,000 to $12,000. Your agent will advise on competitive amounts for your specific market and property.
For detailed guidance on earnest money amounts and how to protect your deposit, read our complete guide on earnest money refunds.
Your real estate agent will prepare the formal purchase offer, but understanding what's included helps you make informed decisions.
Your agent will prepare an offer letter (also called a purchase agreement) that includes all the key terms. When putting an offer on a home, these are the essential elements:
Beyond price, several factors can make your offer more attractive:
Flexible closing date: Accommodating the seller's preferred timeline shows cooperation.
Larger earnest money: Demonstrates strong financial commitment.
Clean offer: Minimal contingencies and requests signal a smooth transaction.
Quick response times: Commit to fast inspection and review periods.
Proof of funds: For cash portions or if making an all-cash offer, show bank statements.
Most real estate transactions involve some negotiation. Understanding common scenarios helps you respond effectively.
Acceptance: The seller agrees to all terms. Congratulations—you're under contract!
Counteroffer: The seller proposes different terms (price, closing date, contingencies). You can accept, counter back, or walk away.
Rejection: The seller declines your offer outright. You may submit a new offer or move on to other properties.
Multiple counter: In multiple-offer situations, the seller may counter all buyers, asking for "best and final" offers.
Successful negotiation between buyers and sellers requires strategy and patience. If your first offer isn't accepted, don't despair—most deals involve some back-and-forth:
Once your offer is accepted, you're officially under contract. The clock starts ticking on your contingency periods.
Understanding the escrow timeline helps you stay on track. Read our guide on how long escrow takes for detailed information.
The home inspection is your opportunity to discover issues before you're committed. When reviewing inspection results:
From accepted offer to closing typically takes 30-45 days. During this time:
If you want to make an offer on a home, base it on comparable sales, market conditions, and the home's condition. In a balanced market, starting near asking price is reasonable. In seller's markets, you may need to offer at or above asking. In buyer's markets, there's room to negotiate below asking price.
Yes, but it's not recommended. Buyer's agents are typically paid by the seller, so their services cost you nothing. They provide invaluable expertise in pricing, negotiation, and contract details that can save you thousands and protect your interests.
Most offers include an expiration deadline, typically 24-72 hours. Sellers may respond the same day or take the full time allowed. In multiple-offer situations, sellers often set a deadline for all offers before reviewing.
You can submit a new, more competitive offer, or move on to other properties. Ask your agent for feedback on why the offer was rejected—this information helps you improve future offers.
Personal letters (sometimes called "love letters") are controversial. While they can help in some situations, they may also introduce fair housing concerns. Some states have restricted their use. Consult your agent about local practices.
Making an offer on a house involves numerous strategic decisions that significantly impact your outcome. When you want to buy a home, a good real estate agent or broker can make all the difference. When you're making an offer, an experienced buyer's agent provides:
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Find Your AgentMaking an offer on a house requires careful preparation, strategic thinking, and often some negotiation. By getting pre-approved, researching the market, determining a competitive price, and including appropriate contingencies, you position yourself for success in any market condition.
Remember these key points:
With the right preparation and guidance, you'll be well-equipped to make competitive offers and secure the home you've been looking for.