Understanding closing cost responsibilities in real estate transactions
Last Updated: January 2026
Who pays closing costs is one of the most common questions home buyers and sellers ask when navigating a real estate transaction. The short answer: both parties pay closing costs, but the specific costs are divided based on local customs, purchase agreement terms, and negotiations between buyer and seller.
Closing costs typically range from 2% to 6% of the home's purchase price, representing thousands of dollars in fees for services like appraisals, title insurance, lender fees, and taxes. Understanding which closing costs you're responsible for, and which ones are negotiable, can save you significant money when buying or selling a home.
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While closing cost responsibility varies by location and negotiation, here's a general breakdown of who typically pays what:
| Closing Cost | Typically Paid By | Negotiable? |
|---|---|---|
| Loan origination fees | Buyer | Yes |
| Appraisal fee | Buyer | Sometimes |
| Home inspection | Buyer | Rarely |
| Lender's title insurance | Buyer | Yes |
| Owner's title insurance | Varies by state | Yes |
| Real estate agent commission | Seller (traditionally) | Yes |
| Transfer taxes | Varies by state/locality | Sometimes |
| Recording fees | Buyer | No |
| Escrow/settlement fees | Split or varies | Yes |
| Property taxes (prorated) | Both (prorated) | No |
Home buyers should expect to pay 2% to 5% of the purchase price in closing costs. For a $400,000 home, that's $8,000 to $20,000 in addition to your down payment.
Most buyer closing costs are associated with obtaining a mortgage:
Buyers are typically responsible for:
At closing, buyers typically prepay certain expenses:
Sellers can expect to pay 6% to 10% of the sale price in closing costs, with real estate agent commissions making up the largest portion.
Traditionally, sellers pay the real estate commission for both agents involved in the transaction, typically 5% to 6% of the sale price split between the listing agent and buyer's agent. However, the 2024 NAR settlement has changed how commissions are negotiated, and buyers may now pay their own agent directly in some transactions.
Real estate commission structures have evolved following the NAR settlement. While sellers still commonly pay commissions, buyers should discuss agent compensation with their real estate professional. Learn about buyer broker agreements →
Sellers commonly pay:
Sellers may have costs related to their existing mortgage:
Closing cost customs vary significantly by state. Who pays for what often depends on local tradition, not just negotiation.
One of the biggest state-by-state variations is who pays for the owner's title insurance policy:
| Who Typically Pays | States |
|---|---|
| Seller | Alabama, Arkansas, Florida, Georgia, Indiana, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland, Mississippi, New Jersey, North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, Virginia, Washington DC |
| Buyer | Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Michigan, Minnesota, Montana, Nevada, New Mexico, New York, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Utah, Washington, Wisconsin |
| Split or Varies | Connecticut, Delaware, Iowa, Kansas, Maine, Massachusetts, Missouri, Nebraska, New Hampshire, North Dakota, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Dakota, Vermont, West Virginia, Wyoming |
Note: These are general customs, actual responsibility depends on your purchase agreement.
Transfer taxes (also called deed stamps, documentary taxes, or conveyance taxes) vary dramatically:
Yes! Many closing costs are negotiable. Understanding which costs have flexibility can save you thousands of dollars.
Seller concessions (also called seller credits or seller contributions) allow the seller to pay a portion of the buyer's closing costs. This is particularly common when:
Lenders limit how much sellers can contribute:
| Loan Type | Max Seller Concession |
|---|---|
| Conventional (less than 10% down) | 3% of purchase price |
| Conventional (10-25% down) | 6% of purchase price |
| Conventional (25%+ down) | 9% of purchase price |
| FHA loan | 6% of purchase price |
| VA loan | 4% of purchase price |
| USDA loan | 6% of purchase price |
When shopping for a mortgage, you can negotiate certain lender fees:
Pro tip: Get Loan Estimates from multiple lenders and use competing offers as leverage to negotiate fees down.
You can often choose your own service providers for:
Shopping around can save hundreds or thousands of dollars on these services.
Three days before closing, you'll receive a Closing Disclosure that itemizes all closing costs. Review it carefully to understand exactly who pays what.
Compare the Closing Disclosure to your Loan Estimate to ensure fees haven't increased unexpectedly. Some fees cannot increase, while others have limits on how much they can change.
In theory, yes, but there are limits. Lenders cap seller concessions (typically 3-9% of the purchase price depending on loan type and down payment). The seller cannot pay more than these limits without the excess being considered a reduction in the sale price.
Some closing costs are tax deductible, including:
Other closing costs like title insurance, appraisal fees, and transfer taxes are typically not deductible for your primary residence but may be added to your cost basis.
Yes, in some cases. Options include:
However, rolling costs into your mortgage means paying interest on them over the life of the loan.
Cash buyers still have closing costs, though fewer than financed purchases (no lender fees). Cash buyers typically pay for:
Sellers pay the same costs whether the buyer pays cash or finances.
If you're short on closing cost funds:
Understanding who pays closing costs, buyer or seller, is essential for budgeting your real estate transaction. While traditional customs dictate many cost responsibilities, almost everything is negotiable in real estate.
Key takeaways:
A knowledgeable real estate agent can guide you through the closing cost negotiation process and help you understand your local market's customs. They'll ensure you're prepared for all the costs involved in your transaction.
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